Who I Am



Favorite Author:
Terry Goodkind
The Sword Of Truth Series
Basic Facts...


Each style of D/s is different. I realize this that is why I decided to type up this page. I want anyone whom may be interested to know most there is about what type of style of life I chose.

I like to be considered a Tender Loving Dom (hence the screen name). I will Love my submissive with all my heart. I have the ability to be able to love with everything I have, including my heart. I am somewhat of a romantic, I enjoy quiet evenings at home with candlelight dinners and/or candlelight bubblebaths. I am the type of person that helps around the house. If she cooks, I will do the dishes. That is to say if she too works. My submissive is permitted to have a life of her own as long as I am the biggest part of that life. I should add in there that I am looking for a submissive that has the ability to be able to love me with all her heart and soul, just as I will her. I know what your thinking, this guy is not a Dominate. Please read on...

I do expect my submissive to do as I require, if not, I will punish her. She must be and willing to except any punishment I feel, is fit to the occasion. Most of my punishments will be the corner and/or spankings.

I am not into pain, if I would cause such pain on another, I feel guilty and just want to hold them untill their pain goes away. I do give out punishments, but my spankings are not really painful.

Most of my punishments revolve around sexual desires. So she must have a drive.

I am into light bondage, the most I do would be to tie the person to a chair or to the bed. I don't spend hours getting real elaborate in the process.

I do enjoy role playing. I will leave your mind to wonder about that one. :) This being an open forum, I have to be careful in what I say.

I was married for 15 years to a little lady who was my submissive. I did something to hurt her which was to cheat on her and it took me over 3 years to get over her. It was my fault. That is another thing, if I am at fault, I will not hessitate to admit it. I feel that if a Dom can't admit to his mistakes, then he must sit back and examine himself. Anyway, that 3 years that I was getting over my ex. I took a hard look at myself. I know now who I am and what exactly I am looking for. Do YOU? If you can't answer that question, please don't even bother to look me up.

If you have gotten this far than you must be either interested or just wanting to see what kind of person would type out his heart on the computer. Well I hope it is the latter of the two.

If you interested please feel free to e-mail me or if I am online, IM me. I would like to find someone that is my type of little lady. The right one is so hard to find.



My Hobbies & Interests


I enjoy going camping, swimming, fishing, hiking, almost anything outdoors. I am a very active person, I like staying busy. I work out of my house on compters on the side.



My Online Life


What I do online? Most of the time is find programs to download or patches to the ones that I already have. I very seldom go into rooms to chat. To me there is too much crazy stuff going on in them. I stay to myself most of the time, there have been occasions where I have went in and just enjoyed myself.


The one last thing that I would like to say in this is that when a woman gives me her submission on her own free will, it will be treasured. I will guard her heart for all times. She will never again have to question if there is in fact true love out there, for she will find it in my arms.